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Using Feng Shui to Have Romance

Do you have romantic relationships, but you want them to be stronger? Have you tried different things and you found that nothing seems to be working? The truth is that your environment might need some help. Feng shui is something that you can use to make your home more open to romance.

The bedroom is going to be the best place to start but the rest of your home can make a welcoming environment.


Put things in your bedroom that are pairs. Put two hearts or two stars. This promotes being together or being a couple.

Put your bed in the middle of the room or out of the corner so it doesn’t make your partner feel trapped.

Never put your bed by the window because you want to be protected from negative energies that are outside.

When you go into the bedroom, have red, white, or pink in the right corner. Put a pink lamp or a pink nightstand. This means a romantic union. You can use these colors to accent your home and it will cause there to be less stress.

Think of things that are romantic and will set the mood for you.


Take time to declutter your bedroom and get rid of things that you don’t need. This will help you to organize the room and let the energy flow.


Get rid of anything that has to do with water such as pictures of oceans or lakes and instead use pictures of fire so that it can increase your passions.


Do not put mirrors facing the bed because this will bring in other energy to the bedroom. Remove mirrors completely if you can or cover them up with something.

No Technology

Get rid of any technology in your bedroom. This way you can focus on each other and not be distracted by things such as television.

Yin Energy

Your bedroom needs to have peace and no stress. Dim the lights and use soft music.

Living Room

Put the front legs of the furniture touching the carpet so that you can have an intimate connection hen you talk to your partner.

Single Furniture

Do not use one piece of furniture. Always have things in two’s. This can invite romance to the room.


Put pictures of you and your partner in the living room. This will show your energy of romance.


If you have a fireplace in your living room, burn it. Let your feelings be ablaze and if you don’t have a fireplace, light candles.


Try to not have a bathroom in the southwest part of your home because this is the part of your home that is the love area.

If you have a bathroom there, make sure that you use earth and fire accents. Have candles and colors that are romantic. You can make sure that you keep the bathroom clean to avoid negative energies.


Make the bedroom and bathroom doors different color so that you can not drain out the romantic energy. Your bedroom and bathroom doors should be different colors, so it keeps the energies inside of the room.


Here are some accents you can use in your home:

  • Red accent pieces
  • Candles
  • Rose quartz
  • Amethyst
  • Pottery
  • Use square décor
  • Get rid of negative memories.
  • Hang art that represents love.
  • Use balance and do not use too many things.


Make sure that you balance things in your house. You have to find the perfect balance to get rid of romantic problems. Add a few things in your home but do not overdo it.

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