Anger is difficult for any person to navigate, but it especially tricky for children to process. Often, society views anger as an explosion of negative thoughts and emotions. It can be association with extreme sadness, and an abundance of unceasing thoughts or impulses. Typically, people repress the initial waves of frustration in order to get through the moment. Unfortunately, this is a pattern we then teach the children in our lives. We coach kids that anger is unhealthy and something to be punished for experiencing. We even minimize the stressors they are experiencing (Quit crying or I’ll give you something to cry about. You don’t know how easy you have…
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Slow Moving or Surface-Level: Defining a Relationship
You may be wondering if your relationship is the real deal because of how slowly it has been moving or if it is something that is about to end because it was never really that deep. When this type of situation occurs, a couple may fight labelling things or talking about the future which can lend itself to worry. Do not jump to conclusions, there are notable differences that can help determine your relationship status. Keep in mind that slow is not necessarily bad because it allows for time to get to know the other person deeply. This leads to feeling emotionally safe and builds a strong relationship foundation. There…
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Being Too Nice in a Relationship
When you work in places that make you show your feeling and make you feel that you have to be nice, you might see that sometimes when you are too nice that your relationship can be ruined. Sometimes, you will be around people that will make you feel that being too nice is not something to be upset about but being too nice really can ruin your relationships. Being in unhealthy relationships can be centered around abuse and negativity and when you talk to couples that make it a long time in strong relationships, you will see that some of the problems that they did have in their relationships…
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Falling in Love with a Friend
The best thing about falling in love with a friend is finding out that the friend feels the same way about you. But what if they don’t? It would heartbreaking. Here are three steps you should follow if you’ve fallen in love with a friend: Analyze your feelings to be certain they’re valid. Having romantic feelings toward a friend is confusing. Questions buzz around inside your head: “What am I feeling? Is it true love, or is it just a crush?” You must be sure that what you’re feeling is love before you start thinking about if you want to try to escalate your friendship into a romantic relationship. Make…
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Making a Guy Horny
When you want to make a guy horny, you have to understand that not all guys are turned on by the same things. You have to find the right strategy to get your guy horny without acting like a slut or being weird. How to Get Your Guy Horny The first thing that you want to do is set the mood. Find a place to be that will turn your guy on and make him interested in you. The best place is not going to be a public place like a football or basketball game. This will be a place you like to go and have fun, but this place…